How to Get a Guy Interested in You By Being Your Wonderful Self

Wondering how to get a guy interested in you? It’s not as hard as you think. An important first step is to stop overthinking it all. Just be wonderful you!

When you like someone, it can be hard to focus on anything else. And what you’re most concerned with is if they like you back. And if you know they don’t, all you want to do is to know how to get a guy interested in you.

Sure, you can just go on being you and waiting for him to notice you, but why not take it up a notch? The good news is that getting a guy interested in you isn’t all that hard. Guys may not be as simple as TV and movies make them out to be, but getting their attention isn’t too hard.

There are some pretty simple things you can do to get on his radar.

[Read: How to get a guy to ask you for your number – Advice from a guy]

Get a guy interested in you with confidence

Yes, I’m doing a whole section on confidence. There are many things that can be done to grab his attention and pique his interest, but the number one thing is to exude confidence.

Confidence is not just how you come off to others, but how you view yourself. When you appreciate who you are and know your worth, you will pull eyes from everyone, especially him.

When you have confidence, not only will that draw attention from him, but it will draw attention from others too which will make him even more interested. When you are confident, you don’t measure your worth by how others see you.

That vibe attracts others. People want to be around people that give off that confident energy. If you can do that, you are already halfway there in learning how to get a guy interested in you.

[Read: How to gain confidence and turn your life around for the better]

How to get a guy interested in you

There are plenty of ways to get a guy interested in you. Some are more subtle than others, but they are all effective. Odds are he’s already interested in you but doesn’t have the guts to do anything about it. Let him know you’re interested too or at least give him the nudge to make a move.

#1 Look your best to feel your best. You do not need to get dressed up and put on loads of makeup to get his interest unless that is something you love to do. You look your best when you feel your best. So wear what makes you feel good. [Read: How to glo up and transform yourself from the inside out]

#2 Smell good. I don’t mean to just use deodorant. If you know you’re going to see him, spray a little spritz of a sexy or musky perfume. A vanilla scent also goes a long way with a guy.

#3 Open up. When you share things about yourself with him, he will not just get to know you, but will see a different side to you. When he knows you have confidence in a topic like your favorite hobby, he will be attracted to it. [Read: How to charm a man and win him over with your sassy personality]

#4 Encourage his passions. When he is talking to you, encourage him to talk about what he loves whether that be his job or baseball or anything else. When he is talking about what he loves, he will light up and when he does that around you he will associate those good feelings with you.

#5 Do not be so agreeable. Share your opinions. If he asks your opinion on anything from a movie to politics, be honest. Be bold and confident in your statements. Any guy you want to be interested in you will like someone that stands strong in their beliefs.

#6 Touch him. Touch him in an appropriate way. Graze his arm when you walk by. Touch his hand when he makes you laugh. These little platonic touches mean a lot more than you might think. [Read: How to flirt by touch without making it obvious at all]

#7 Make eye contact. A lack of eye contact shows a lack of connection and a lack of confidence. When you look into his eyes, he will feel a deeper connection with you naturally.

#8 Post a thirst trap. You know those days where you take a selfie, and the first one is fire and you are feeling hot? Well, post it. You’ll be surprised how fast he reaches out. [Read: How to master the sexy thirst trap without looking too thirsty]

#9 Don’t be too eager. It is exciting when he texts or calls, but don’t jump on it. I’m not advising you to play hard to get, but stay busy. Don’t be on your phone waiting for him to reach out. Let him sweat, just a little bit.

#10 Don’t try too hard. If you’re wondering how to get a guy interested in you, don’t pretend you like something just because he does. And don’t act like you know his favorite obscure band or are into sports if you’re not. He will know if you’re lying and it will just be embarrassing.

#11 Be interested. If you don’t know what he’s talking about, ask. Be interested. You don’t have to know everything about his favorite golfer, but asking shows you’re interested in everything about him.

#12 Keep it casual. Even if your end goal is to lock him down, let it be. Enjoy the time you do spend together without worrying so much about the future. If you’re anxious about the future, it will affect your time together. [Read: How to tease a guy and make sure he realizes how much he likes you]

#13 Ask for his help. Ask him to help you with something. It can be as simple as carrying something heavy or advice on a work issue. Being able to help you and know you are accepting his help will remind him of what a good team you are. [Read: Why men find a damsel in distress so irresistible]

#14 Say his name. Saying his name out loud will psychologically let him know that he is important to you. Little things like this remind him of you and pique his interest, even if he doesn’t know why.

#15 Keep living your life. Don’t make him the focus of your life when you’re trying to figure out how to get a guy interested in you. That’s not your goal in life. Keep hanging out with friends and enjoying hobbies. Knowing you have a full and active life will remind him how coveted you are.

#16 Flirt. I know this seems obvious, but when preoccupied with getting a guy interested in you, it can make you forget the easiest things. Flirting will give him the signal that you like him and let you show off your sense of humor. [Read: 30 subtle, flirty and really sexy flirting tips that’ll drive a guy crazy]

#17 Mirror his movements. Another psychological tip is to mirror his movements. If he crosses his legs, cross yours. If he mirrors your movements first, he is already interested.

#18 Be patient. He may be more nervous than you think. Guys are scared too. He may be really interested in you but is taking his time to work up the nerve to do something about it.

#19 Don’t talk about your exes. Once you start dating someone, it is good to share your past, but if you’re just getting him interested in you, sharing the juicy details on your dating history can be quite a turn off.

#20 Actually get to know each other. There are lots of tricks and little details that can help you get a guy interested in you, but the best? Take your time and really learn about each other. [Read: How to get to know someone and open up and make true friends]

#21 Make sure you like him. Before going through all this effort to get a guy interested in you, make sure you’re actually interested in him. You don’t want to waste your time on someone just because they are cute.

[Read: Why do I like him? 12 reasons why you like the guy you like]

Learning how to get a guy interested in you is mostly about confidence. All the rest is about your connection.