Top 50 Kinky Sex Ideas for a Naughty, Lust-Fueled Relationship

Looking for ways to keep the sexy excitement alive in love? Here are top 50 kinky sex ideas for a naughty relationship to always keep you horny and happy!

Looking for ways to kink up your love with a few kinky sex ideas? You’re not alone, we all have and we all still do look for ways. It’s funny, isn’t it? You spend the first several years of your adulthood walking around in a haze of horniness. We’re just horny ALL the time.

But just when you think your sex life can only get better over time, it starts to get just a bit more lackluster with each passing year. It’s not intentional, you DO want to have sex. You do want to keep your sex life exciting. But somehow, it drops down the list of priorities as we grow up.

Learn to keep lust alive

We have this belief that lust is fickle. You could enjoy the best sex of your life this month. And the very next month, you may find yourself bored with the to-and-fro motion. Every time you have sex, does it have to be true that the next time you have sex with that same person is going to be just a bit worse?

Sex is always exciting and frisky at the start of a new relationship, that’s an honest fact. But that doesn’t mean older relationships don’t have the pleasure of fun, wild, and passionate sex. As a matter of fact, long-term relationships can actually have much better, more fulfilling sex lives. Just as long as you know what both of you want in bed and are honest about it.

[Read: 30 super-sexy ways to spice up your sex life in no time]

Vanilla sex and kinky sex ideas

Most of us have vanilla sex. It’s the honest truth. And there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. One of you get on top of the other, a few minutes of huffing and puffing, and then you come. And then, that’s it. it’s good the first few times, maybe even the first few months or years. And then, your favorite shows start to get more exciting and unpredictable than your sex life.

Again, not your fault here. This just happens. Most of us are programmed to believe that if you’re not having good vanilla sex with your lover, or if you start to believe you should try to incorporate a few kinky ideas into your sex life, there’s something wrong with you. You’re a deviant, or a horny goat.

[Read: The 20 most common sexual problems you can easily overcome in no time]

Kinky sex ideas exist to save your sex life

And bring pleasure and the excitement back into bed. Can you imagine spending the rest of your life doing exactly the same thing in bed? You’re probably bored with sex already, so how on earth can it magically get better over time? Especially when it’s progressively getting more and more boring with each passing week.

Kinky sex ideas can transform your sex life overnight. It can make you feel like a horny teenager with raging hormones. It will make you feel like you’re having sex for the first time all over again. And most importantly, it can invigorate you back into loving life again. You know what I mean, don’t you? That tingle in your fingertips, that sexy spark of naughtiness that would rush through your loins every now and then when everything about sex excited you? Exactly that, and more.

[Read: How to be kinky and explore sex out the realm of normal sex]

What is kinky sex really?

When it comes to sex, kinky, or kinky sex, is simply any sexual activity that is considered unusual by many people. That’s it, literally, that’s all it is.

It’s not scary, and it isn’t restricted to some dark, deviant, crazy, perverse obsession. When you hear the words, kinky sex, you don’t have to imagine whips and chains *unless that’s you’re thing!* because some movie you watched a decade ago showed you a guy chained to a bed while a girl whipped his ass until it turned into a tomato.

Every single time you’ve tried something new in bed, be it bringing in whipped cream, groping each other at a party, or even having sex while watching a porn movie, you’re doing something kinky. And hey, if it can make you feel sexy, make sexy sexier, and you two feel like horny teenagers again, isn’t trying a few kinky sex ideas a thought to seriously consider?

[Read: 60 dirty and sexy things to say to your boyfriend + the art of dirty talk]

How to step into the world of kinky sex

One step at a time. That’s the way you need to enter into kinky sex. If the thought of whips and chains excite you, but they also scare you, start by smacking your lover’s bum with your palm. Does it make you both more horny? Yay, kinky sex is working already!

Don’t ever go all out when you try a few kinky sex ideas, because one, you may not be mentally prepared for it. And two, the moment you orgasm, you may be filled with shame for indulging in such an “unusual” act. If you truly want to enjoy the best of kinky sex ideas, remember it for what it is, just any sexual activity that isn’t usual.

We’ll get to the list of kinky sex ideas in a moment. If you want to have an amazing sex life from here on, and never look back once because you’re enjoying every sexual experience, just try a few from this list with your partner. And chances are, you’ll love the new direction of your spanking new horny sex life!

Kinky ideas for sexy relationships

When sex starts to get monotonous over time, all it needs is a little spark of kinky ideas to ignite the sexual passion and ecstasy you shared at the beginning. And once you find ways to bring back the excitement into your bedroom, you’ll be able to experience the best sex of your lives, no matter how long you’ve been in the relationship. [Read: Top fantasies for women and top fantasies for men]

Are you having a hard time getting wet or hard down there? Just try something new, chances are, you’ll enjoy it a lot more than you can ever imagine.

Bringing kink into love

Getting kinky in bed can mean different things for different people. What can seem explosive and totally taboo to one couple could seem tame and boring to others.

So we decided to come up with the top 50 kinky ideas for all lovers, be it the new ones or the seasoned professionals of lovemaking.

Still new to the kinky party? Try a few tips from the kinky list.

A kinky veteran? Well, we’re sure there are a lot of tips here that you still haven’t tried, you horny bunny! Try it, you may just like something with a twist.

But just a word of caution, while we do suggest you try these kinky ideas with your partner, we’ll still have to be a buzzkill and tell you to know the laws of your state before indulging in a few of the rather risqué kinky ideas you’ll find as you go down the list.

After all, it’s better to be safe than sorry. We’ve all heard that phrase, never do anything that you can’t explain to the paramedics or the cops, haven’t we?

The best kinky ideas for sexy loving

Here we go, see if you can check every one of these kinky sex ideas off the list over time. And remember to always be honest with each other. Communicate, be empathetic, and learn about each other’s preferences as you try these kinky ideas. We’ll start off with easy ones that’ll make you both horny *we guarantee it!* and build it up to the wild ones that’ll make you drop your jaw in horny fear and excitement!

If you want more details on how to try it, just click on the links at the end of each kinky idea, and you’ll have all the steps you need!

#1 Grind and grope each other while dancing at a club, or on a night out of town.

#2 Have sex with each other while someone’s watching. Or watch someone else having sex. [Read: Sexual voyeurism and the horny rush it can give you]

#3 Have sex with a full length mirror next to your bed, and watch yourselves in it.

#4 Bring food into bed. Nothing beats whipped cream! [Read: The lovers’ guide to horny food and aphrodisiacs]

#5 Make out on a rooftop or under the stars. Romantic, freeing, adventurous and scary!

#6 Role play with each other by dressing in character or as other people in your daily lives. [Read: Role play guide for first timers]

#7 Fantasize about different scenarios and sexual situations and talk about it. [Read: Dirty talking examples to talk about different sexual scenarios with each other]

#8 Skinny dip with each other or involve a few friends. [Read: How to skinny dip for the first time]

#9 Give a road head or have sex while travelling or on a road trip. [Read: Road head confessions of a good girl]

#10 Take off on a sexy vacation with another couple or have a sexy drunk double date at home. [Read: The horniest truth or dare questions to ask another couple]

#11 Get naughty on the beach with each other.

#12 Make out or have sex in a public place like a restroom or in a dark corner of a club.

#13 Flash in public. [Read: How to flash in public the right way]

#14 Shower together and play with the hand shower or have soapy sex in the bathroom.

#15 Pick up a copy of the Kamasutra and try unique sex positions that both of you might enjoy.

#16 Get a couples’ sensual erotic massage with masseurs of the opposite sexes. [Read: Happy ending massage confession]

#17 Make out on someone else’s bed. Creepy, weird, awkward and oh-so-sexy.

#18 Watch porn videos while having sex and turn up the volume for some sexy background music. [Read: Porn for couples and why it might just make your sex life way, way better]

#19 Make a sex video or click nude pics of each other. Or just start by clicking skimpy photos on the beach. [Read: The right way to take nude pictures of your lover]

#20 Have sex with another couple in bed with both of you. [Read: How to make married sex feel like a one night stand]

#21 Make out in transportation, be it on a flight, your own car on a long drive, a train or an overnight bus.

#22 Have tantric sex all night long. [Read: The art of tantric sexuality – The step-by-step guide to your first experience]

#23 Role reversal. Whatever you do normally, switch roles to start slow.

#24 Spanking and nibbling, and a furry cuff can be a great turn on for controlling sex.

#25 Have sex in a changing room when there are very few people around.

#26 Using edible body paint can make eating in bed so much more tasty.

#27 Pretend like you’re sleeping while your partner slips into bed, turns you on and has sex with you.

#28 The world can get dark with blindfolds, but it’ll open up your sexy imaginative mind. [Read: 14 sensual tips to use blindfolds in bed and arouse each other]

#29 Bondage can be scary, but a few scarves, ropes and clean bondage can turn out to be sexier than you think.

#30 Anal sex. If it hurts, use lubes. If it still hurts, try something else. [Read: First time anal sex – The curious bum lover’s guide for every step of the way]

#31 Finger her under a restaurant table. Just make sure the tablecloth’s big enough to cover your indecent act in public.

#32 Have sex with the curtains open and get comfortably close to the window. [Read: Public flashing confessions]

#33 Scratch each other and use your nails. Sometimes, pain can bring more pleasure.

#34 Leave the hotel room door open for the room service while having sex. Or start tame and leave the door open when you’re in a state of undress.

#35 Have resistance sex and pretend like you’re being groped and molested. [Read: A newbie’s guide to the sexiest ways to have the dirtiest sex ever]

#36 Have sex in water, be it a pool or in the ocean.

#37 Bring in a few sex toys to bed. [Read: The must-have couples’ sex toys for naughty first-timers]

#38 Play naughty truth and dare and strip poker with friends. [Read: The 10 best naughty games for couples to make everyone horny in no time]

#39 Have drunk sex after a wild night of partying.

#40 Imagine having sex with someone else and talk to your partner about it. [Read: How to fantasize about someone else and describe it your partner without feeling guilty]

10 Kinky-er kinky sex ideas

#1 Are you bold enough to try swapping and swinging with other couples? [Read: The first time guide to swapping partners with another couple]

#2 Ropes and bondage can be awkward for beginners, but they’re a lot of fun for the seasoned kinky lovers.

#3 Clamps and whips can hurt, but at the right places, even pain can be a huge turn on.

#4 Like being the dominatrix? Try playing submissive to the kinkiest of commands with your partner.

#5 Have sex in risky places. [Read: The 41 naughtiest places to have sex that are beyond the bed]

#6 Like peeing on each other while having sex? Golden shower fantasies were made for you.

#7 Watch your partner having sex with someone else.

#8 Use a double dildo with your man and penetrate him while getting penetrated yourself.

#9 Have a threesome with someone both of you admire or like. [Confession: My first accidental threesome experience that blew my mind]

#10 Have sex and flaunt yourselves on your webcam to other couples. Just remember to keep your face out of the camera though.

Remember, all of us have our own preferences when it comes to kinky sex ideas. See what you like and try what you want. Like something bolder or milder, just improvise.

[Read: 40 would-you-rather questions to find out which kinky act turns your lover on]

Try these 50 sexy, kinky ideas in your own relationship and you’ll see how much more exciting sex can become with a few simple twists in the routine. Want a sexy relationship all the time? These kinky ideas can lead you to a path of sexual satisfaction and horniness that’ll make your life exciting in every other aspect too!