The Sexiest and Dirtiest: 20 Dirty, Sexy Things to Say During Sex

Want to spice up your love life and make sex hotter? Start with these dirty, sexy things to say during sex. See where they take you.

Sex isn’t supposed to be quiet. Of course, there are times where you need to bring the volume down a notch, but for all other cases, let yourself go with dirty, sexy things to say during sex. This is the time where you can really connect with your partner and just enjoy the experience.

Do you moan? Are you breathing heavily? Do you throw out a couple of words? Maybe you never thought about being vocal during sex, or maybe you don’t know how to start. Either way, it’s never too late to explore your sexual preferences.

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20 dirty, sexy things to say during sex

Don’t think you need to be a 50 Shades of Grey wordsmith to come up with sexy, dirty things to say during sex. Start off simple and see how it goes. Sex isn’t a race. Do what makes you feel good.

If you’re not sure what to say, well, you’re about to be given a couple of phrases that’ll help you out when you want to add a little zest during sex.

Of course, check-in with your partner and see how they feel with these phrases. Maybe they don’t like the whole “call me daddy” line or calling their partner a “slut” or “whore.” But this is a part of learning about each other and what you like.

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Let’s get things going with these 20 dirty, sexy things to say during sex!

#1 I want you to be rough/gentle. What are you feeling like? A little hair pulling or something more romantic? [Read: 15 ways to go from ordinary sex to romantic sex]

#2 I want you to _____. You want them to what? What do you want them to do to you? Say it right, and you’ll get it. 

#3 You make me so wet/hard. If it’s true, you better say it. It’s simple, yet very dirty.

#4 I have a surprise for you. Ooo, the surprise better be a good one. Maybe a new toy? A special add-on? [Read: How to sound sexy in bed and arouse your partner]

#5 I love when you _____. What is it that they do to you that makes you lose your mind?

#6 I want you inside of me right now. The foreplay is making you lose your mind, and you’re at the point when you can’t take it anymore. You need them inside of you.

#7 If you want to make me hornier, then _____. What do you want them to do to you? You have to fill in that blank.

#8 Eat me. You know what you want them to do, and during sex, it’s dirty when you say it – and oh so, arousing.

#9 Your pussy is so tight. If their pussy is tight, let them know.

#10 Fuck me harder! You love the sex right now, and you want them to show you their rough side. [Read: Dirty ways to have the sexiest rough sex ever]

#11 I want more. That’s right! You want more and more and more.

#12 You feel so good. Whatever they’re doing, let them know they’re doing it right. Next time, they’ll make sure to do it again.

#13 I want you to make me cum. Is that an order? Either way, it lets them know how much you want them.

#14 What are you going to do to me? Inspire them to get a little creative with what they want to do to you. 

#15 This feels amazing. Everyone loves a compliment, especially when it’s during sex.

#16 I’ve always wanted someone to _____ me. Is that someone going to be you? I’m sure it’s going to be yes. 

#17 I just want to pleasure you. If this is what you want to do, then tell them that tonight is all about you.

#18 I’ve been imagining you ____. If you’ve been dreaming about them doing something in bed, tell them. Maybe it’ll become a reality. [Read: Underrated kinds of foreplay to add serious sizzle to the bedroom]

#19 I love tasting you. And now, give them a little bit more of a taste.

#20 I’m going to cum. If you’re going to do it, then you can tell them in a sexy way.

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Who doesn’t want to have the hottest sex possible? If you do, try out these dirty, sexy things to say during sex and see what happens.