The 10 Most Arousing Erogenous Zones for Women All Men Should Know

Keen to make the lady in your life crazy with desire? Learn about the best erogenous zones for women. That way, she won’t be able to get enough of you! 

We’re talking about erogenous zones for women here, but before that, let’s talk about men for a bit.

We don’t want to generalize, but it usually doesn’t take much to get a man sexually excited. Show him a photo of a naked woman or just grab his crotch, and he’ll probably be good to go.

Women, however, are a different story.

For the ladies, good sex is something like a Beethoven symphony; there’s the overture, the crescendo, and the final climactic *pun not intended* moment.

In other words, women prefer to enjoy the scenic route. While men prefer to get from point A to point B as quickly as possible. That means you need to know the top erogenous zones for women to make all of this happen.

Getting your lady wet and horny in bed requires you to push the right buttons to get her in the mood. By buttons, we mean a woman’s erogenous zones. Erogenous zones could also be referred to as a woman’s sweet spots; the metaphorical switches that turn her lust into overdrive.

[Read: Erogenous zones for males – The secret zones to touch your guy]

Wait, what is an erogenous zone?

An erogenous zone is an area of the body that is packed with nerve endings and often drives a woman wild. For sure, men have erogenous zones too, and some are shared between the two. Yet there are some specific areas that are only for women and when you touch, kiss, lick, or generally caress this area, she’s sure to get way more wet and wild.

Stimulating an erogenous zone is the best way to help your partner to be super turned on and ready for action.

It will make sex much better because she’ll be wet and ready to go. You can easily incorporate all of this into foreplay but you need to learn about the top erogenous zones for women before you start.

Contrary to popular opinion, you don’t have to just go straight in with the breasts, clitoris, and vagina. There are lesser-known hotspots that will drive her crazy with desire too. [Read: Stop ignoring erogenous zones – The perfect neck kisses]

The top erogenous zones for women that make them horny

While we are all familiar with the common fun parts between the legs, there are far more unsuspecting parts of her body that will easily get you into her good graces. Of course, you first need to know where they are and how to touch them properly.

Remember that every woman is different. You might meet a lady who adores having her feet touched, but another may hate it. It’s a personal thing but these erogenous zones for women will normally help you aim towards the right areas for serious sexy fun. [Read: 10 foreplay moves every guy MUST do to their ladies]

1. Feet

First, you don’t need to have a foot fetish to enjoy a good, sensual foot rub. Both sexes enjoy the feeling of their feet getting caressed. Women, on the other hand, have more sensitive feet—especially on the skin near their toes.

Exploit this by oiling up your hands and gently pressing the flesh of her soles with an upward motion.

If you’re up to the task, and if her footsies are clean enough for your satisfaction, you can tease her by giving her toes a little nibble or a roll of the tongue during actual foreplay. [Read: Feet fetishes – Incorporating feet into your sex life]

2. Head and scalp

If you’ve ever experienced a head massage, you will not contest the fact that it’s one of the most relaxing and soothing feelings ever.

The human scalp is home to thousands of nerve endings, which makes it highly sensitive to touch. This is certainly one of the best erogenous zones for women.

A good way to get her in the mood is by gently running your fingers outwards from the crown of her head to the edges of her hairline. Use a motion like grasping a basketball gently. This will definitely send shivers down her whole body and make her warm and fuzzy.

3. The abdomen is one of the best erogenous zones for women

Women can get pretty self-conscious about the look of their abdomen. Yet, little do they know how good it will feel if they let their man play with it a little bit.

The lower abdomen—particularly the area below the belly button—is home to a network of nerves connected to the vagina. This means that fondling the skin of the abdomen is like “nudging” her vagina into arousal.

You should be careful though, as some women can find abdominal stimulation a little ticklish. Tease her into submission by planting a gentle kiss, drawing lines and circles with your finger, or signing your name on her belly with the tip of your tongue. [Read: 11 sexiest spots to kiss a woman and drive her crazy]

4. The lips

Lips are meant to kiss and be kissed! The lips are an obvious erogenous zone and are readily capable of receiving pleasurable sensations due to their high concentration of nerve endings. There are a hundred times more than on the fingertips! So, they are sensitive to pressure, moisture, and temperature.

The act of kissing sends signals to the brain, which releases the feel-good hormones oxytocin and serotonin. This quickly translates into a higher state of sexual arousal.

However, be a creative kisser and don’t just sloppy kiss like a fish. Employ a combination of sucks, pecks, and nibbles to get her feeling good and wet. [Read: 20 moves to use while kissing with tongue and arouse her with your kiss]

5. The inner thighs

We bet you’ve seen this in a movie before. While driving a convertible down the freeway, the guy has one hand on the wheel while the other hand is caressing a beautiful woman’s inner thigh as she moans in sexual agony. This is pretty accurate, as that fateful patch of skin is near the vagina, and that makes it a powerful erogenous zone for women!

Think of the inner thigh as the switch to the floodgates. Manipulating it can get her wet and excited. You can achieve this by gently caressing her inner thigh with the tips of your fingers.

Stroke her inner thigh, gently moving upwards near her vagina. This will tease her into a sense of anticipation and she will enjoy the effects as one thing leads to another.

6. Ears

As a rule, body parts located on the head are sensitive to touch. The ears are no different. Ear stimulation can have varying results, ranging from ticklish giggles to low, erotic moans, so it is advisable to test the waters first before going full contact.

Start by tracing the curve of her ear, from top to bottom. Begin with the outer lobe and if she responds well, proceed to kiss her on the lobes and give her ears a gentle nibble. Continue to watch her responses as you run your tongue inside the cup of her ear.

While you’re at it, why not whisper something dirty to her in your bedroom voice to add fuel to her fire? [Read: How to dirty talk to a girl and say the things that’ll really arouse her]

7. Small of the back

To demonstrate how sensitive the small of your back is, try giving it a flat hand slap. Hurts, doesn’t it?

The small of the back is covered by a thinner patch of skin compared to the rest of your body, in addition to being located just millimeters above the base of the spinal cord. The small of the back is home to a bunch of nerve endings that will definitely hit her sweet spot if you touch her there.

One good way to arouse this specific erogenous zone for women is by giving a back massage. Take her top off and make her lie on her stomach. Gently run your hands from the small of her back upwards. Make sure that your thumbs are keeping the pressure on the trench of her spine while the rest of your fingers rest on the curve of her waist.

Once you’ve revved her engine up, bombard the small of her back with a lot of moist kisses and watch her writhe in pleasure. [Read: 13 sensual massage techniques that’ll make any girl want a lot more]

8. Nape of the neck

One of the best erogenous zones for women is the nape of the neck. This is another area chock-full of nerve endings and covered with a thin patch of skin. That’s why this area is the first to hurt when you get a sunburn.

Giving this area a great deal of attention is a good and quick way to get her horny.

Start by giving her a shoulder massage and work your way up to the back of her neck with gentle feather touches. A good indicator that she’s loving it is when she cranes her head to expose the back of her neck more. When that happens, time to bring in the lip work and plant as many kisses and nibbles as she wants. [Read: How to make out – The subtle moves that’ll make you oh-so-irresistible!]

9. Nipples – One of the most obvious erogenous zones for women

The female nipple is an erogenous zone that people are universally familiar with. Men are drawn to it. The nipples are one of the most sensitive parts of the body, and a part where stimulation leads to immediate sexual arousal; women can actually get orgasms from nipple stimulation. [Read: Nipple orgasms and how to get a girl to experience it]

The nipples, along with the clitoris, are both directly wired to the female brain center responsible for arousal.

However, this degree of sensitivity requires you to have great care when touching her nipples. Don’t be too rough when touching her and always pay attention to her responses.

A good way to start is by tracing circles on her breast. Start from the base and make smaller spirals, working your way up toward her nipple. Another way is to gently massage her breast with one hand while using your lips and mouth to caress her areola and nipples. [Read: The most honest reasons why guys love looking at and feeling boobs so much]

10. Clitoris

When it comes to erogenous zones for women, the clitoris is the crown jewel of the female body. With over 8,000 nerve endings in a patch of flesh the size of a raisin, it’s bound to do wonders.

However, don’t be fooled. Not all clitorises are alike and women respond to different types of clitoral stimulation.

Furthermore, the more nerve endings there are, the greater the likelihood of hurting her is if you touch the clitoris incorrectly. [Read: Clitoris stimulation – 10 moves to please the clitoris and make her really horny]

The main trick to achieve the best out of her clit is using featherlike touches. This type of touch is so light, it is almost not there at all. This kind of touch gives a strong sense of anticipation and will make her want more.

A good way to get her going from the berry is by drawing light circles around her clitoris, without actually touching her clit. Watch her reaction and work your way to a spiral to the center and then gently add pressure. [Read: How to eat a girl out – 16 secrets to make her scream instantly]

Exploration is key for best results!

If you want to do your best to make the lady in your life crazy with lust, it’s important to experiment.

Remember, not all women are the same. Everyone likes to be touched differently, just as you like to be touched differently too.

That means you need to try different things, ask her what she likes, and listen to what she’s saying.

Also, when you touch her, pay attention to her responses. That will speak volumes in more ways than one! 

[Read: 18 must-know sex tips for men to make her crave for more!]

The next time you’re going to have sex, think of it as a road trip. The journey is equally important as *and is sometimes more fun than* the destination. So warm up your hands and explore the uncharted terrain keeping these erogenous zones for women in mind.