How to Tease Your Girlfriend Sexually & Make Her Think of You All Day

If you’re looking for new ways to get your lady to desire you, you have to leave her wanting more. Learning how to tease your girlfriend will do just that.

Knowing how to tease your girlfriend can be extremely valuable. There’s something really special about a guy who can tease you and leave you thinking about him all day. It’s like the best form of foreplay out there and you don’t even need to be around her for all of it, either.

If you want your sex life with a girl to be incredible, teasing is the thing you have to master. Women need more than just a few touches before jumping in bed. The foreplay has to be a big event or the sex just isn’t as satisfying. [Read: How to tease girls over text and get them to flirt back with you]

What does it mean to tease your girlfriend?

In a nutshell, teasing is one of the best ways to flirt with your girlfriend.

The reason teasing is flirty is that it adds some sort of depth to your relationship. It’s playful, and it brings you closer together. It’s a great way to let your girlfriend know how much she turns you on. It also allows her to tease you back, which is fun.

Teasing can put your girlfriend at ease. You can share intimate jokes and make your sexual chemistry even greater than it already is. The whole point of teasing your girlfriend is to get her to think about you *sexually*. [Read: How to build sexual tension with a girl until it’s out of control]

Also, there are two kinds of ways you can tease your girlfriend – sexually and non-sexually. Unlike just casual flirting with a girl you’re trying to get to know, you have the advantage of taking things up a sexual notch when you’re with your girlfriend. And we’ll cover both ways of teasing in this feature.

But before we talk about how to tease your girlfriend, let’s talk about the importance of foreplay and why you shouldn’t forget about it.

Why teasing and foreplay is of the utmost importance for women

Sure, you can have sex without foreplay and it’s fine. Some women even get off without having had any foreplay, but they’re not the norm. Because women take longer to finish, we need a little head start.

That head start comes in the form of foreplay and without it, the chances of a girl actually having an orgasm are reduced significantly.

Foreplay is a huge part of having sex for women. It’s needed. If you want to keep your sex life intact and your woman happy, learn some flirty foreplay moves that’ll make a big difference. [Read: How to foreplay – Secrets to make your woman enjoy every moment of it]

How to tease your girlfriend sexually and leave her thinking about you all day

Luckily, teasing is a really fun way of foreplay that can be done whether you’re physically with her or not. In order to leave her with naughty thoughts of you all day long, focus on some of these naughty, flirty methods.

1. Be gentle

You know how when you get turned on, all you want is for your lover to pull you close and touch you all over? Girls are the same way. They like a rough hand so they can really feel your touch intensely.

One way to tease a girl is to deny her that pressure. Give her gentle touches and gentle kisses. Trail your lips subtly down her neck, but don’t be rough at all just yet. This will turn her on and make her crave your touch more deeply.

2. Find those erogenous zones

We’ve all got them. Women are very sensitive along their neck, collarbone, back of the neck, inner thighs, and ears. This gives you a lot of material to work with.

Nail down these spots and play a little game with yourself. Tease your girlfriend, touch and kiss her in these areas until she just can’t take it anymore.

This is actually a great thing to do to wake her up in the morning. Then when you slip away for work, she won’t be able to stop thinking about you. [Read: The 10 most erogenous zones for women all men must know about]

3. Whisper really dirty things in her ear randomly

Pull her in close when you’re out and about or even at a work or family function and whisper naughty things in her ear.

Tell her all the things you’d like to do when you get home. Make her anticipate pulling into the driveway and walking through the door.

Not only does this put your lips at her ear – an erogenous zone – but it puts those dirty thoughts in her head. The thing that makes you an extra tease is the fact that she can’t act on any of those things until later. [Read: 35 dirty things to say to a girl to leave her wet with desire]

4. Text her about the last time you had sex

You can do this when you’re together or even just over text. Talk to her about the last time you had sex. Describe what you liked the most. Tell her what you’d do differently this time.

The idea behind this method for learning how to tease your girlfriend is that you’ll put her in the mindset of when you two had sex last. She’ll pull up that memory of how great it felt and it’ll be on her mind until she sees you again.

5. Describe what you want to do to her

Women are great at picturing things in their minds. Why do you think we love reading romances so much? If you sit there and describe all the things you’d like to do to her, it paints a very clear image.

When she’s picturing everything you’re saying, she’ll start wanting it right then. Making her wait while still telling her all the stuff you want to do is enough to drive her wild. [Read: How to talk dirty to a girl and arouse her without turning her off]

6. Use your hands

If you want to tease your girlfriend sexually in bed, start by trailing your hands up and down her body. Let your fingers gently graze over her sensitive areas before pulling them away. You can also change up the pressure, too.

Being really gentle and then squeezing at her can increase the sensitivity. That will really make her crave your touch even more. If you do this repeatedly it’ll be the worst and best tease of her life.

7. Use your lips

Do the same thing with your lips. Let them trail over her body. You can even make it naughtier by biting gently in some areas.

The best thing you can do here is kiss those spots you know she loves. Make her beg for you to touch her there. [Read: 28 turn-ons for girls that’ll make them melt in your arms]

8. Pull away after letting her have a little bit

And when you finally do let her have a tiny bit of her favorite touches, stop and do something she likes less. Having you spoil her and give her what she wants before ripping it away will make her want it even more.

9. Talk about how wild she drives you

Something that’ll tease her a ton is if you tell her how horny she makes you. Tell her exactly what it is that makes you melt for her. Knowing she drives you that wild will make her want to do it again.

And if you deny her that, it’s the biggest tease. [Read: 25 sex questions to ask a girl to make her instantly wet]

10. Know what she likes, and only barely give it to her

The idea behind this is that you’ll make her desire it more. She might not always be thinking about you doing that one specific thing she goes nuts for during sex. However, if you put that thought in her head, she won’t be able to get it out.

It’s kind of like when you start talking about ice cream to someone who’s on a diet. The second that thought gets put in their head, they can’t stop thinking about it until they finally get it. That’s how this works when teasing a girl.

11. Going down on her

Most girls love this, but you need to mix it up. Don’t just do down on her and use only your tongue. Play with her boobs or some other body part of hers.

Use your hands and mouth any other place you can. Tease your girlfriend her down there with your tongue too. Touch around the periphery to make her think you’re going to go all-out, but then fool her as many times as you can. [Read: How to eat a girl out – 18 secrets to make her scream and squirt]

12. Ear & neck tricks

If you lick her ear and the nape of her neck, it will make her go weak in the knees. Try to get really good at doing this.

If she’s not in the mood for sex for some reason, try this when she’s in the kitchen or bathroom. You’ll be surprised how much it will turn her on, and she might just end up turning the tables and attacking you.

13. Throw her on the bed

Okay, do this kindly and not too rough. Pull her close, and when you can tell that she is enjoying what you’re doing, push her on the bed. Act like a wild animal who is ready to pounce on her. Then stop. Go easy and start from a new place. [Read: Naughty sex – 17 wild moves to stifle the yawn and go crazy in bed]

When you threw her on the bed, she was expecting wild action. But instead, she gets a slow start. This will make her long for you and beg to have sex with you.

14. Grind on her

Another great way to tease your girlfriend is to let her feel your hardness by grinding on her somewhere. You can do this when you come up to her and hug her from behind when you both are fully clothed.

Or you can take some clothes off and grind on her but don’t penetrate. Tell her how hot she is and how badly you want her. But don’t make the move. 

15. Massage her

Rub her feet, back, calves, ankles, or arms. Don’t touch her erogenous zones while you’re doing that. Even if she’s trying to get your hands to go there, just refuse to do it.

After a few minutes, she will be consumed with passion and be demanding that you have sex with her. [Read: How to turn a girl on and leave her tingly when you’re around]

The best non-sexual ways to tease your girlfriend

While it’s fun to tease your girlfriend in a sexual way, you can do other things that won’t immediately lead to sex. So, let’s take a look at some of the best non-sexual ways to tease your girlfriend.

1. Tease her about her clothes

Regardless of what she is wearing, you should make remarks about it. Tell her that the way she’s dressed is just her attempt to sexually provoke you. She might deny it, but she will feel very turned on when you do this.

You can say things like, “Oh, so you’re wearing those jeans today. You’re just trying to get my attention, aren’t you?” Another one you can use is, “High heels? You totally want me, don’t you?”

The point of doing this is to let her know that you want her, but you are teasing her by making her think that you think she’s coming on to you by what she’s wearing. [Read: Mutual sexual tension – 44 signs, causes, and secrets to get more horny]

2. Tease her body language

Point out to her the certain things that she is doing with her body that are “trying to get your attention.”

Some examples are, “You’re sitting awful close to me tonight. Is something on your mind?” and “Stop looking at me with your seductive eyes. Calm yourself down!” 

3. Tease her about what she talks about

When you draw attention to her topics of conversation, it’s a great way to tease her. You can say things like, “The only reason you’re talking about going to the beach is so you can see me half-naked in my swimming suit” or “Telling me what you’re making for dinner isn’t going to make me come over and have sex with you.”

4. Tease her by saying no

Saying no to your girlfriend is a great way to create sexual tension with her. All you have to do is say “no” when she asks you to do something for her.

She could ask you to hold her drink, her purse, or even dance with her if you are out at a club. The point of saying no is to tease her by being disagreeable. But you have to do it in a way that makes it obvious what you’re doing.

[Read: 22 naughty, non-sexual ways to tease a girl and make her want you more]

Learning how to tease your girlfriend, sexually and non-sexually, takes a bit of time. You have to know her and what she likes really well before using that information to make her beg for you. These tips can help you get her excited and thinking about you all day.