How to Strip Tease: 19 Sexy Moves for Newbies to Undress Like a Stripper

If you’re looking for beginners’ strip routine and tips, you’ve come to the right place. Here’s how to do a strip tease and turn him on like crazy.

Have you been dying to deliver a sexy strip tease show to your man, but you’re not exactly sure how to go about it? Relax—it isn’t nearly as complicated as it seems.

What exactly is a strip tease?

A strip tease is putting on a seductive act for someone *or multiple people* in which you remove your clothes piece by piece. Burlesque dancers perform these strip tease acts to music.

It’s different than a lap dance because a strip tease is more of a visual experience with no touching involved. You don’t have to be a good dancer to undress for your partner. Just be yourself!

You’re a sexy, smart, bombshell of a lover—so why not strip for your man? If you’re in a long-term relationship, then you already know that, while the promise of a well-guided orgasm and the comfort that comes with not having to shave your vagina every time you have sex is awesome, it can also get a little too routine.

Your man has likely seen you naked hundreds of times by now, making any “out of the box” sex seem out of this world.

Whether you’ve been in a relationship for 5 months or 5 years, stripping is a simple way to add a little something extra to the bedroom… if you’re brave enough! [Read: How to give a sexy lap dance for your man he’ll never forget]

Liquid courage for a strip tease

In a way, stripping is a little bit like dirty talking: uncomfortable at first, but way too much fun once you get into it. If you don’t fancy yourself a natural dancer or are feeling shy, a glass of wine *or, let’s be real: a shot of vodka* certainly won’t hurt your cause. 

Just make sure it’s 1 shot and not 10! Falling down drunk while stripping will definitely make an impression, but not one he’s likely to cherish in his “best sex ever” memory bank. [Read: 50 sexy, naughty things you can say when you talk dirty to your guy]

How to strip tease for your man 101: Beginner strip routine and tips

As with most things in the bedroom, confidence is absolutely pivotal when it comes to learning how to strip.

Let’s face it: unless you were a drama major in college, putting on a show in the bedroom seems more like an embarrassing memory you’d like to quickly forget than a sexual accomplishment. 

Pump yourself up by practicing in a mirror for a few days leading up to the big show. Pick your music, know your cues, and really get into it. You know you’re sexy, so work it! [Read: The girls’ guide to strip clubs and female strippers]

And if all else fails? Fake it! *Your confidence, not your orgasm!*

1. Prep your music

When it comes to learning how to strip and making your preparations, your music will be a key ingredient. Stay away from songs that will seem “funny,” or have no rhythm to them. Stick with classic stripping playlists and dubstep stylings.

Just look for a few Spotify stripping playlists and pick one that you like. Remember to practice your song *or songs* in a mirror, so you know the routine. This is great for him to watch, and great for your confidence! [Read: Role playing ideas for couples and how to dress in a costume he’ll love]

2. Set the mood

Preparing to strip for your man involves more than just peeling your clothes off. It requires a mood—an ambiance! Choose the location of your strip-down and set the mood. We’re talking music, candles, and a setting. 

Do you intend to do a proper striptease with him on a chair or couch, or are you going to let him lay on the bed, stroking himself as he watches you from across the room?

Will there be roleplay involved? Figure out a game plan before the big day!

3. Layer your look for a sexy strip down

Stripping out of your jammies? Not exactly intoxicating. When it comes to putting on a show for your man, you want to pull out all the stops.

Unlike wearing slinky lingerie, when it comes to stripping, the more clothes you have on, the better—to start with, anyway. Think of stripping like climaxing to orgasm: there has to be a buildup of torturous teasing before you get to the big finish.

Your look matters, so when we say “layer,” don’t even think about layering with your comfy granny sweater. When you think of how to strip for your man, you want your look to exude sex. 

Think: your sexiest lingerie, complete with garter and knee-high stockings, sexy high heels, hair done up *and let down for dramatic effect during your strip*, all hiding beneath your short skirt and tucked-in button-up.

The slower you unbutton, the more lust your guy’s going to feel.

You could also opt for an old-school pin-up strip down, dolling yourself up with victory rolls, red lips, and a vintage dress and corset. [Read: How to dress for sex and look sexy in bed when your man comes over]

How to strip tease: Getting down to it

Here it is, the moment he’s been waiting for: your big strip tease! Start with the music on and the partners in place and begin your big strip show.

1. Strut into position

Let your man know you’re confident in your moves by doing the classic girl walk *head held high, shoulders back, and hips going from side to side*.

2. Come over to a chair you’ve set up as your stripping station

Gyrate your hips to the music, play with your hair, and then offer a sexy smirk as you set your high heel on the chair. This gives him a great view of what’s hiding under your skirt and shows off your thighs.

3. Taking it off

While maintaining your sexy, dance-like rhythm strip tease, rock your hips until you’ve turned completely away from him and strip off your first layer—your shirt.

Throw the shirt over your shoulder so it falls onto your man’s lap.

4. Remove your skirt

Maintaining your dance, bend over *far over!* until your bum is at a perfect curve, and slowly slide your skirt down your thighs.

Make sure to caress your bottom as you bring your hands back up. Men love watching a woman caress her sexy body, so play up the breast touching and thigh rubbing when appropriate. [Read: 34 physical turn-ons about a girl’s body that arouse a guy instantly]

5. Continue moving your hips side to side, feeling the music, playing with your hair, and biting your lips

You want your guy to know you’re really into how sexy you feel. Try backing up against the wall, or chair, and slowly sliding down as you move to the music.

6. Remove your shoes

Get your foot back up on your stool and drop your shoe to the ground. Slowly start peeling off your silky stockings and garter.

We emphasize: slowly. Keep eye contact during this step. The more eye contact, the more intense your sexy strip-down will be. [Read: What are bedroom eyes? How to master the seductive look when you stare at someone]

7. Remove your bra

Employ a tactic similar to what you used to remove your shirt, by spinning around and slowly unclasping your bra.

Let it fall to the floor and cover your breasts with your hands. Turn back around and let your man feel teased by the thought of seeing you topless in a mere moment.

While dancing to the music, slowly remove your hands from your breasts, and lose them in your tousled hair. [Read: 25 things girls do that guys find sexy and irresistible]

8. Get those panties off! 

Once you feel your man is sufficiently teased, keep going with your strip tease by start slipping your underwear off.

You can do this by once again bending over and giving him a doggy-style view of your goods or, for the less balance-inclined, simply standing facing him and teasing the panties down your legs. 

Once removed, those feeling especially naughty may choose to hold their panties by their teeth as they continue gyrating, or make their way over to their man. [Read: 12 bad girl traits every guy craves to see in his girl]

9. It’s sexy time! 

Some say the best way to finish off the strip is with oral sex, but we say do whatever feels right!

If you go the “lap dance” route and have yourself all hot and bothered, simply return to the lap dance once you’ve removed all your clothes and hop on top! [Read: How to give good head – The biggest guide and 50+ blowjob secret tips]

General guidelines and ideas for your strip tease

Now that you know the step-by-step actions to take when you perform your strip tease for your man, you need to remember some general guidelines too so you can make your performance even more memorable.

10. Use a lot of eye contact

When you are performing for your man, you can use your eyes as a tool for both connecting and teasing him.

When you stare directly into his eyes for a prolonged amount of time, it shows confidence, and that is very sexy to a man. It will also make the two of you feel closer. As they say, “the eyes are the window to the soul.” [Read: Eye fucking and how to master the secrets of intense eye contact]

11. Take your time and go slowly

Make sure you choose your costume/clothes very carefully. You don’t want to rush your strip tease routine because you want him to really enjoy it. So, remember to take off each piece of clothing very slowly.

This will help build anticipation in him. If you’re working with a prop or a sex toy, you can also use this in your routine by exploring how you can play with it in different ways. [Read: Seductive tease – 20 tantalizing ways to blow your lover’s mind]

12. Assume a persona

To make your strip tease even more fun, try to assume a different persona. In other words, pretend that you are not you.

You could pretend to be a sexy French dominatrix or a hot Russian spy. Putting a little acting into the strip tease will make it more exciting.

13. Dim the lights

While you can do your strip tease in broad daylight, it’s not as sexy to do it that way. It’s best to do it in a darkened room.

If you have a dimmer or smart lights, you can use that. If not, you can shut off all the lights and light some candles. That way, it will be even sexier with the flicker of the candlelight. This light is also more flattering and sets the tone.

14. Tie your man down before you start

If you really want to get kinky with your strip tease, you could command control before you start by tying him down somewhere while he watches.

You could handcuff him to a chair or tie him to the bed. Either way, have him sit down and tell him you’re about to give him a show. Tell him he’s not allowed to touch you until you are all done. [Read: How to tease your boyfriend – 15 sexy tips to leave him stiff]

15. Find a strip tease tutor to learn from

As silly as it might sound, you can probably find a professional stripper to learn from. Creating your own strip tease can be fun, but if you want to take your sexy dance routine to the next level, then you can look to a professional for some guidance.

You can take a strip tease class or watch a burlesque dancer do their routine online. They will give you some ideas for your own. This is a great idea for beginner strip routines and tips.

16. Practice

Since you’re not a professional stripper, you can’t expect to do a flawless strip tease the first time you try. So, if you really want to impress your man, you should do some practicing until you feel comfortable. Y

ou want to have all of your moves down as well as you can. You can also practice stripping in front of a mirror. It can be fun and even a turn-on for you.

[Read: How to make yourself horny – 25 very powerful ways to get wet fast]

Learning how to strip for your man may seem daunting at first, but when it comes down to it, stripping is just choreographed dancing that leads to amazing sex. What’s so scary about that? So, now is your chance to go for it and make him go crazy with lust for you!