How to Please a Man with Your Mouth: 13 Lip Smacking Blowjob Tips

You want to blow your man’s mind, but you’re not sure what to do. Well, step up your oral sex game by learning how to please a man with your mouth.

Oral sex isn’t as easy as it sounds. Your friends may have explained it to you, or you watched a movie where they were cracking jokes about it. But when it comes knowing how to please a man with your mouth, there’s an art to it.

It’s not just going up and down, hoping for the best. Of course, knowing the basics is a must, but you’re beyond that. You have everything down. Now you want to go the next step to impress your man.

When it comes to sex, it’s not a competition. Of course, we all have egos and want to be the best at everything, but that takes time.

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How to please a man with your mouth

You probably already know the basics, and if you do, you’re at a great start. But, you probably want to spice things up a bit and switch up the routine. If you want to ‘wow’ your partner, it’s about time you tried some new techniques. [Read: 12 blowjob basics you have to master to be a pro in bed]

So, that’s why I’m here. If you want to know how please a man with your mouth, it’s time to know how to do it. Go on, shock him with your mouth.

#1 Do you enjoy it? This is a question you need to ask yourself. Do you enjoy performing oral sex? Not everyone does, and that’s okay. But if you’re forcing yourself to do it when you don’t enjoy it, it’s not going to work. No matter what technique you use, it’ll never be truly mind blowing because you don’t like it. So, think about this before going any further. [Read: The questions about sex most of us are too shy to ask about]

#2 Be spontaneous. If you two are watching a movie or driving home from work, why not turn the situation into a quick oral sex session? He would have never expected it and that’s the fun. If you are in a rut, this is a great way to spice things up and ignite the spark again. You don’t need to wait to be in bed to arouse your partner.

#3 Try to edge. This will require you to know when he’s aroused, but if you know him well enough, this will work perfectly. When your man is close to ejaculating, instead of going all the way, slow down or stop completely.

As he relaxes, go back and build up the arousal again. You can do this over and over again, building up a strong orgasm. But this only works with communication and focusing on his arousal signs. [Read: How to orgasm harder and better with edging]

#4 Add some sound effects. When performing oral sex, not many of us are vocal. But that’s a huge component for men during oral sex. By moaning and groaning, it’s arousing to hear enthusiasm. If you like dirty talk, add that into your oral sex routine. You don’t need to be completely silent. [Read: How to moan without sounding like a dying walrus]

#5 Focus on other erogenous zones. When performing oral sex, it’s normal to focus solely on the penis. But men are full of erogenous zones; you’re just not paying attention to them. Don’t be afraid to let your hands wander around his body; touching his nipples, inner thighs, ass, and arms. If he likes anal play, gently explore his backdoor. 

#6 The wetter, the better. Oral sex is all about sensation. Any easy way to please your man with your mouth is by using more saliva. If you don’t have much saliva, use a flavored water-based lubricant. When it comes to oral sex, wetter is always better.

#7 Don’t forget the prostate. The prostate is always forgotten; it’s heavily underrated. But it’s only one of the biggest erogenous zones in a man’s body. If you stimulate it properly, he’ll go crazy. The prostate is essentially the male G-spot.

With a lubed finger, rub around his anus. If he allows you, insert your index finger two inches into the anus, you should feel his prostate. Once you feel it, stroke it gently. You can perform oral sex at the same time or try this to give your mouth a break. [Read: How to find and stimulate the male g-spot]

#8 Play with temperature. When you’re sexually aroused, your body temperature increases. So, if you counter it with something cool, it’ll send a jolt to your senses. Whether it’s a fan or your cold breath, play around with cold air between his legs. It’ll send him over the edge.

#9 Say hello to the testicles. They’re right there, but they always seem to get ignored. The testicles are very sensitive, which makes them great candidates for some tongue action. Lick or gently suck the testicles while giving your partner a handjob.

#10 Try out a foot job. Maybe you’ve seen it done in porn, and it looks a lot easier than it is. But if you’ve been hitting the gym and have a decent core, try giving your man a foot job. Lube his penis, and wrap your feet around it, gently twisting the shaft while moving up and down. [Read: Have you ever heard of the finger blowjob?]

#11 You don’t need to deep throat. Thanks to porn, when it comes to learning how to please a man with your mouth, it’s assumed that oral sex needs to consist of deep throating, but that’s wrong. You don’t need to deep throat the penis. Instead, wrap your hands around the bottom of the shaft and place the rest in your mouth. Gagging isn’t fun for anyone.

#12 Ditch the game plan. You probably have a routine of how you give head. But it’s time to ditch the routine. Try giving head without thinking about the next step. It’ll be more exciting and unexpected for the both of you. Instead, go with the flow and the chemistry between you and your man. [Read: 16 sex tips for women to make sex so much more exciting]

#13 Listen to your partner. You can blow your partner’s mind just by paying more attention to his reactions and direction. If he suggests to try this or that, do it. He’s not saying this as a joke or to mess things up; he’s stating his preferences. The best blow jobs are the ones where you’re listening to your partner and vice versa.

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Oral sex is an important part of intimacy for both, men and women. Now that you know how to please a man with your mouth, why don’t you give them a try?