Horny Girlfriend: 15 Signs She’s Aroused & in the Mood for More

Sometimes it’s not easy to read your partner. You might think they’re feeling one way, but it’s another. Learn the signs you have a horny girlfriend! 

You may think, that you know when you have a horny girlfriend. But, do you really?

When your football game is on, do you really notice she’s looking for some loving? Or, do you read the signs completely wrong and think that she’s not interested when she’s really waiting for you to make a move?

There may be times when she’s so horny but you’re watching sports or thinking about going to the beach, and where does that leave her? Dry as a bone.

It happens to the best of us. However, if you’re in a relationship, you are partially responsible for knowing when your partner is aroused. You may be completely missing the signs that she’s in the mood.

You both need to be in sync with one another. While you’re not expected to be a mind reader, you do need to be able to at least work out when you have a horny girlfriend in your midst. After all, do you make it obvious when you’re feeling a little horny? Probably!

[Read: The sneaky but big signs to know if a girl’s feeling horny around you]

The signs of a horny girlfriend who’s totally aroused

It’s time to pay attention, boys! Take some notes, and keep your eyes open for the signs. Here are all the signs that show she’s in the mood and you have a horny girlfriend in your company.

1. Pay attention to her breath

Breathe in, breathe out. Remember those times when you’re angry or excited? What do you notice happens to your breathing? It changes. You start breathing faster.

Okay, so, now think about the time when you were horny and staring at your girlfriend. You probably looked at her like you wanted to eat her. Meaning, your breathing started to increase.

She’s no different. In fact, if she’s breathing heavily, and if you didn’t piss her off nor is she crying, then it’s a pretty safe bet that she’s horny. If you’re new to sex, then this will be something you’ll just have to pay attention to, you’ll notice it more over time. [Read: How to cuddle with a girl so it leads to sex every time]

2. She’s a horny girlfriend if she’s moaning in some way *no, she’s not complaining!*

Ah yes, the classic moan. It’s usually paired with heavy breathing, and if she’s not moaning, this means she’s holding it in. That means she’s restricting herself and most likely tensed. So, if she’s naturally moaning while making out with you or while you’re touching her, she’s aroused.

If she’s trying not to moan, as some girls are slightly shy about that, help her relax. Meaning—tell her to moan. You can say it encouragingly and in a sexy way like, “Scream for me, baby!”, “I love it when you moan!”, “Moan louder!”.

These phrases help her relax mentally and enjoy the sexual moment with you. You might have to listen carefully for the moaning as some women moan in a breathy way – it’s super sexy! [Read: 9 sexy reasons why women moan and groan in bed]

3. The hips don’t lie!

Listen, the hips never lie. If you pay attention to her body language, when she’s aroused, you’ll see her move her hips in a faster or grinding motion. Think about when you see two people dancing. Usually, she’s grinding her hips against the guy’s leg, and it can be either in a fast or slow and sensual motion.

Okay, wait, we have a better example. You’re on the couch watching a movie with your girlfriend. She’s cuddling up next to you, and you feel her hips slowly grinding against your leg. 

Well, if you don’t get that hint then what are you waiting for? Sure, she’s not vigorously humping your leg, but if she’s slowly but firmly grinding against you, she’s testing your reaction and hoping you’ll get the hint. The hips never lie! [Read: How girls grind with a guy slowly and discreetly]

4. She’s more than a little impatient

If you’re not getting the clues, you should be able to see her arousal level by how impatient she is. If she’s really horny, she’ll eventually just take the business into her own hands and work on getting you aroused.

She doesn’t want to waste the time, and we don’t blame her.

She may end up climbing on top of you while you’re watching TV or walk into the bathroom naked while you’re showering. Basically, what we’re trying to get at is – impatience is a very clear sign that she’s horny. [Read: 12 signs you have a slutty girlfriend and why you should be proud of it]

5. Not-so-subtle arching of the back and neck

You probably didn’t think of this, but usually, when women are aroused, they tend to arch their backs and throw their heads back. You’ve probably noticed this if you’ve done doggy style or if you’ve fingered her. This is a sign she’s highly aroused and whatever you’re doing right now, keep at it.

She might be doing this around you to try and get your attention. Basically, she’s a horny girlfriend and she wants you to notice and do something about it! [Read: Stop ignoring erogenous zones – The perfect neck kisses]

6. There’s a definite wetness when you have a horny girlfriend

When you think of the word ‘horny,’ the second thing to come to your mind is ‘wet.’ It’s like two peas in a pod. This is a hard one to figure out if she’s dressed. If she’s basically naked in front of you by this point, she’s most likely wet.

When a woman is wet, she’s highly aroused, and it’s an indication that her vagina is preparing for penetration. Now, don’t think she has to have a floodgate going on down there. Remember, every woman is different so some may have a lot of discharge while others may have less.

It’s also possible that she could be wet and not at all turned on. If you’re not noticing any other signs, you probably need to tread carefully. Women can be a little wetter or have more discharge at a particular time in their menstrual cycle. So, she may not be a horny girlfriend at all, she may just be ovulating! [Read: How to make a girl really wet and horny just by casually sitting next to her]

7. She looks at your lips

When a girl wants to taste your lips, she’ll stare at them. That’s a strong indication she’s interested in you and is sexually aroused.

Now, this could mean she either has low or high arousal levels going on, you’ll just have to continue and see how it goes. What a hard thing to do! So, if she’s staring at your lips like they’re candy, kiss her.

8. She makes a clear effort and dresses up

If you’re used to seeing your girlfriend in sweatpants, and all of a sudden she’s wearing tight jeans and a cleavage-revealing shirt, well, she’s flaunting her goodies.

Of course, it makes her feel good when she feels sexy, but she also wants you to notice how hot she’s looking. So, don’t just keep your eyes glued to the TV.

This is a clear sign she’s feeling sexy and most likely aroused. Take matters into your own hands and see how she responds. Hopefully, you’ll have got the horny girlfriend tip right and you can make her feel so much better! [Read: How to be a good boyfriend – 33 traits that matter more than anything else]

9. Her eyes roll back in pleasure

If you’re kissing her, and you see her head tilt to the side with her eyes rolling back, she’s completely in the moment. This is also a common sign when the girl is about to orgasm, so it can be seen in both low and high levels of arousal.

This one is a harder sign to notice because usually, you’re busy kissing her and having sex. But if you notice this, you’ll see how much she’s enjoying it. [Read: How to make a woman orgasm – 15 secrets to master the art]

10. She has heightened sensitivity

When women are aroused, everything becomes that bit more sensitive. The clitoris swells, the breasts and general skin on her body become highly sensitive.

If you’re kissing her neck and she’s moaning, well, you know why. Many men during sex suck the woman’s nipples due to their sensitivity. It feels great and something you should definitely try to see how she responds to it.

11. She starts making verbal suggestions

If you have a horny girlfriend, it’s entirely possible that she will start to tell you how she feels in an indirect way. Is she using more sexual language than she normally would?

Maybe she’s outright talking dirty to you!

Listen to what she’s saying and the types of words she’s using – that could give you a very strong indication about whether or not she’s got a major case of the horn. [Read: How to talk dirty and turn your lover on like no one else can]

12. She becomes a little annoyed

Now, be careful with this one because an annoyed girlfriend doesn’t necessarily mean she’s horny. If you read the room wrong here, you could end up making the matter ten times worse! But, if you can nod along to several other signs on this list that tell you that you have a horny girlfriend, it’s possible that she’s downright frustrated. 

Sexual frustration tends to show itself in different ways. So, if she’s annoyed for no particular reason, it could be that she just wants to work off some steam and she’s frustrated that you’re not getting the hint. 

13. She touches you randomly

If she starts touching your arm, giving you “the look,” or generally playing with your clothing or stroking your skin, she’s turned on.

She’s trying to get you turned on so that the fun can begin. This is one of the major signs that she’s horny so don’t miss out on this one. [Read: 20 physical signs of female arousal to recognize a girl that’s horny]

14. Her nipples are shouting at you

Not literally of course! But, if her nipples are erect and you can nod along to several of the other signs, it’s possible that she’s horny.

Yet, it’s possible that she could just be cold so do bear that in mind. However, combined with a few other signs, you can basically say that she wants some, and she wants it right now!

15. The biggest sign of a horny girlfriend? She comes right out and tells you!

Of course, it could be that she just tells you how horny she is. There’s no more direct way of finding out than this!

If she tells you she’s horny, then she’s basically telling you that she wants to get it on. Are you horny too? If you are, it’s time to get it on! If not, well, you’ll have to either try to get horny or make an excuse and put it off until later! [Read: 35 dirty things to say to a girl and to leave her wet with desire]

When it comes to having a horny girlfriend, all woman are different

We should definitely point out that the signs of a horny girlfriend may vary from woman to woman. You might notice that she does several of the things on the list, but never any of the others.

Not all women like to talk dirty. Some women will never come right out and tell you that they’re horny. You have to know your girlfriend and understand how she acts when she’s got a major case of the horn. 

The wonderful thing about women is that each and every one is unique. So, do some observations the next time you know that your girlfriend wants to get it on, and commit those personal signs to memory for the future. 

[Read: When women are at their horniest and what you can do about it]

If you remember these horny girlfriend signs, you’ll be able to notice right away when your girlfriend’s turned on. Don’t waste any more time, go and give her what she wants—you!