Why Do I Like Him? 12 Reasons Why You Really Like the Guy You Like

If you’re wondering, why do I like him, you’re not the only one who’s been there. But what is it about him? Find out why you actually like him.

There were some days where I would sit down and stare at the ceiling while asking myself, why do I like him? Why! Am I crazy? Why him?

When I had a crush, I would drive myself insane. I would creep their social media like crazy and mentally prepare for my classes with them… figure out what I would wear.

I was a little excessive. But I must admit, it was fun. But the question still remained unanswered. Why did I like him? Out of all the guys in the world, why did I pick him to be someone I could see as my boyfriend or long-term partner?

Why do I like him?

And though you think the answer is easy, it’s not. There’s a lot that comes to mind when you think about a person you have feelings for.

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In the beginning, you don’t really know why you like him. Maybe it’s his smile or his laugh. But usually, there’s something more to it. Unless he’s one of those crushes you never talk to but only drool over, there’s more to it.

So, if you’re asking yourself why you like him, look no further. It’s time you looked at some of the reasons why. It may help you understand your feelings and where they are coming from.

Let’s get to the bottom of it and answer, why do I like him!

#1 You’re attracted to him. Let’s get right to it. One of the reasons you like him is because you find him attractive. There’s something about his face, his body; the whole package turns you on. He may not look like Channing Tatum or Chris Hemsworth, but he doesn’t have to. Attractiveness is completely subjective. What you find attractive someone else may not, and that’s perfectly fine! [Read: What does sexual attraction feel like?]

#2 He makes you laugh. Well, this one is important. One of the reasons why we like someone is because they make us laugh. And, of course, this makes you feel good and happy. So, naturally, you’re going to develop stronger feelings for him. If he makes you laugh and you’re smiling all day, this is why you like him. [Read: 12 types of humor and how it affects relationships]

#3 You see him as a serious partner. You don’t see him as just some guy. No way. In your head, you already have the future planned out. You see him as your boyfriend, maybe even someone you want to marry. And these thoughts only fuel your feelings for him, which makes sense. I mean, you like him because he could be the one.

#4 He’s honest. When it comes to a potential boyfriend, you want a partner who’s honest with you. You don’t want to feel like there’s always something they’re hiding from you. Their honesty makes you feel relaxed, and that’s how it should be. If you feel comfortable around him, that’s one of the reasons why you like him.

#5 Everyone likes him. Now, you probably liked him before he met your friends or family, but knowing that they approve makes you feel even more emotional. Everyone has given him the golden seal of approval, and now you’re even more relaxed around him.

#6 You have deep conversations. When you’re with him, you two really talk. Not just about how your day was, but also about more personal things. You feel like you can talk to him about anything, and he’ll be there to listen without judging you. This is why you like him. [Read: 11 surefire ways to know if you’re dating a true gentleman]

#7 He’s always there for you. Whenever you need a shoulder to cry on or someone to talk to, he’s right there. And that’s one of the reasons why you like him. He’s there when you need him. And even when you’re doing fine, he’ll show his face and make sure you’re okay. That sweetness is what makes you all mushy inside.

#8 He’s charming. What can I say? He’s one charming guy who knows how to flirt. Of course, this is why you like him! He’s turning up the sexual chemistry, and you’re losing your mind – in a good way! This is what creates two people to be attracted to each other. When there’s chemistry, it’s hard to resist them. [Read: 15 intense signs of chemistry that reveal an instant connection]

#9 You can be yourself. This one is important. When you’re around him, you feel completely natural, like you can really be yourself. When you feel like home when you’re next to him, that’s when you know what you feel is true. Sure, he’s funny, cute, and smart. But when you’re beside him, it feels right.

#10 He’s woven into your life. Another reason why you like him is that he’s so woven into your life. He doesn’t just pop in from time to time. No way. If anything, he’s around you all the time and knows everything about you. You can’t imagine him not in your life.

#11 He’s protective. Not in a creepy obsessive way. That’s not where I’m going with this. Instead, he makes sure you get home safely, doesn’t let people talk disrespectfully to you; it’s the small things. And when you’re around him, you feel safe. Of course, this isn’t the only reason why you like him. But it’s one of them. [Read: 20 qualities in a guy that make a really good man]

#12 You just do. Sometimes, we don’t really know why we like someone. Maybe he’s not your type at all but, for some reason, you just happen to like him. Listen, you can’t control your feelings and pick who you want to like. If that could happen, we’d all be in love with Bradley Cooper or Liam Hemsworth. But the fact is, there’s just something about him.

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Questioning yourself? Why do I like him, well, now you know. Having a crush on someone isn’t easy. If anything, it drives you nuts! Is it time to make a move?