24 Sexy Signs Your Guy Thinks You’re Hot & Finds You Very Attractive

If you’re wondering what the signs are that your guy thinks you’re hot, here are 24 obvious ones to look for to see if he thinks you’re irresistible.

There is no denying that being the apple of your partner’s eye is very important. Why else would you bother being with someone? But how are you supposed to know the signs that your guy really thinks you’re hot and will not stray if he comes across someone whom you think lives up to society’s so-called accepted standards of the ideal irresistible woman?

The media has ingrained into all of us that size-zero-six-foot-tall-stick-figures are what constitutes the ideal woman.

Stop worrying about what the media proclaims. What do they know about the real world anyway? It all comes down to each individual man.

The 24 subtle yet obvious signs your man thinks you’re hot and totally irresistible!

Not every man is a Leonardo DiCaprio wannabe who only dates models. There are men of substance out there in the world who will find you sexy and desirable no matter how deeply your curves and edges run.

You should trust your man when he tells you that you are beautiful. You should also remember that being hot and sexy is not just about beauty, but brains as well.

However if you are someone who needs some reassurance that your guy still finds you alluring, here are 24 surefire signs telling you that he really thinks you are hot and sexy.

1. He tells you how he feels

One definitive way to know if your guy thinks you are hot and sexy is to pay attention to the times when he tells you just that.

There is no reason why you should not believe him when he says he finds you irresistible. You should know him well enough by now to be able to tell if he is serious or if he is just pulling your leg.

If your man always tells you how he feels about you, then he most likely finds you sexy and smoking hot, and he’s definitely falling harder for you!

2. He compliments you

Another way to know if he finds you sexy and hot is if he showers you with compliments. Your man should know by now that you probably love being told how wonderful you are.

Do not focus on just the compliments he gives you about your looks. Relish it when he tells you how funny and smart he thinks you are.

These are genuine compliments and to many women, these are far more meaningful than getting positive feedback on what they look like on the outside. [Read: Are you awkward when it comes to taking compliments?]

3. He’s proud of you

If your man shows you off, then he definitely thinks you are absolutely divine. Trying to one-up his boys is an obvious way to tell you that he thinks you are all that.

There is no doubt that when he shows you off, he thinks you beat all the other women in the vicinity, even his mates’ girlfriends. When your man puts you on a pedestal, you know that he truly cares.

4. He loves touching you

Body contact is a surefire sign that your guy thinks you’re hot. Whether it is resting his hand on the small of your back, slinging his arm over your shoulders in a possessive manner, holding your hand, or nuzzling your neck with kisses, he certainly finds you very attractive!

There is no way a man would not want to touch a woman he gets hot under the collar for. Men are quite simple in this regard.

If they see something they like, they have to have it close to them and you are no exception.

5. He dresses up for you

When a man makes an effort to look good for you, you know that he finds you hot and sexy. He knows that he has to be on par with the way you look, or at the very least try to measure up.

Shaving, trimming his bush, spritzing on cologne, combing his hair, and putting on a clean shirt for date night are all signs that he cares about you and wants to please you.

6. He initiates sex

Nothing proves his lust for you more than him wanting to do you over and over. If he initiates sex all the time, there is a good chance that he cannot get enough of your sexiness.

Unless he is apathetic about sex, you have nothing to worry about because this is one of the biggest signs your guy thinks you’re hot.

7. He is romantic

When a man proves his love to you by turning on the charm, there is a good chance he wants to keep you in his life.

You can attribute it to him being comfortable with you, you can brush it off as him just being sweet, but we all know that the real reason behind it all is that he is afraid of losing his sexy partner.

Men will move mountains for the person they love so you should be glad that he makes the effort to be romantic.

8. He surprises you

When a man makes an effort to please you with surprises, he definitely cares deeply about you.

Whether it is showing up unannounced at your place to cook you a feast, or surprising you with a hot stone massage, there is no doubt that he wants to keep your hot and sexy ass around if he makes the effort to make you smile.

9. He does you favors

Making a woman happy will certainly keep her around. Your man probably finds you irresistible if he cannot help but constantly do little things for you. He probably has an inner fear of taunting and telling him he will lose you if he does not make you happy.

Nothing scares a man more than knowing that his sexy lady love is about to walk out because he is not doing enough to please her. Enjoy the favors but do not take advantage of them.

10. He appreciates you

Countless movies, television shows, books, and stories from friends and family have all told us that when a man does not show his appreciation for his mate, he probably does not care very much.

Hence, if your man puts in the time, money, and effort to show how much he appreciates you, it is a good sign.

Whether it is showering you with gifts, flowers, a homemade playlist, or a home-cooked meal, he is showing you he appreciates the fact that you are the sexy star in his life.

11. He can’t stay away

Wanting to spend every waking minute with you is a solid indication that he cannot get enough of you. When he starts disappearing for days on end, stops returning your calls, or asks for something as lame as an open relationship, he certainly does not view you the way he used to.

Enjoy the fact that your man wants to spend time with you as he clearly finds you hot and sexy.

12. He is affectionate

Most of the time, you have to drag the sweetness out of a man. So if your partner unabashedly showers you with attention and affection, he certainly finds you hot and sexy.

Men love validating what you may already know, but they’ll do it anyway because he adores you. So if he is always affectionate and very obviously making an effort to please you, that is one of the signs that your guy thinks you’re hot.

13. He buys you sexy clothes

You will know that your sweetheart appreciates your body when he buys you sexy lingerie.

He will not want to see someone he does not find attractive strutting around in a crotchless thong, so be glad if he surprises you with something sexy to tempt him in. Play the part and enjoy the fact that he loves laying his eyes all over you.

14. You catch him staring at you

There’s no way his eyes will wander whenever you’re in the same room as him. That’s one really obvious way of telling just how hot he thinks you are.

15. He shows you off on social media

If he wasn’t proud of how hot you were, he wouldn’t want to shout it from the mountain tops to tell the world. Okay, so we’re just talking about social media here, but it’s the same thing.

If he’s posting a lot of pictures of you alone and the two of you together, it’s almost like he’s marking his territory because he thinks you’re hot.

16. He compliments you in bed

When he says things like, “I love your boobs” or “You’re so good at giving head,” then that is one of the huge signs that your guy thinks you’re hot.

He will talk about all the body parts he loves and what a great lover you are. That’s because he is so enveloped in the passion that it just comes out.

17. He holds you closer around other men

While he is affectionate in general, you notice that he squeezes your hand a little harder and put his arms around you more when other guys are around.

It’s like he’s giving this sign to them to back off because you are his woman. If he didn’t think you are hot, why would he do that?

18. He doesn’t look at other women around you

A lot of guys are guilty of ogling other women when they are with their girlfriend or wife.

But if he only has eyes for you, then you know he’s a smitten kitten. It’s a natural instinct for some guys to check out women all the time. So, if he’s not doing that, then it’s a good sign.

19. He sexts you

If he sends you a lot of sexy texts and/or pictures of his body parts, it’s because sex is on his mind – with you. And if he can’t keep you off his mind, then you are obviously smoking hot to him. Imagine how he feels at work when the only thing he can think of is you!

20. He wants to have sex a lot

Sure, all guys like sex. But some of them aren’t totally head over heels attracted to their partners. In fact, a lot of guys aren’t that into sex.

So, if he can’t keep your hands off of you and wants to have sex all the time, what more do you need to know? This is one of the biggest signs that your guy thinks you’re hot. Actions speak louder than words.

21. He notices other men check you out

If he is acting a little jealous when he notices other men checking you out, then that’s because he feels a little threatened.

He knows how hot you are, and he knows that other guys know that too. So, he might point it out whenever it happens because he wants to reassure you that he is hot for you.

22. He smiles all the time

Smiling says everything about a person. If a person isn’t happy, then they don’t smile.

So, if you catch him smiling from ear to ear when you are around, it’s because he probably has dirty, naughty thoughts going through his mind about you and your body.

23. He stares at your body parts

Maybe you’re just laying on the couch or even at a restaurant, and you catch his eyes on your boobs or even a bit down lower. If he’s looking, then he’s thinking about those body parts and how much he wants to touch them.

24. He smells you

People are really attracted to someone’s scent because we all emit pheromones that make people attracted to us. That’s why they even put them in cologne and perfume.

So if he likes to smell you, then he can’t get enough of those sex pheromones that you are giving off.

At the end of the day, don’t worry too much about trying to see the signs that your guy thinks you’re hot. Each man has his own way of letting you know that you’re sizzling hot in his eyes. So if you’re feeling the love, you know he’s a keeper! 

[Read: 45 signs a man really loves you even if he doesn’t say it out loud]