15 Texts to Make Him Think About You, Miss You & Want You Closer

Away from your guy? If you want to turn his mind back your way, here are a few texts to make him think about you with a big smile on his face.

Making a guy remember you and think of you fondly has never been easier. And if you’re looking for texts to make him think about you and miss you, well, here’s everything you need to know about what to text, and how to time it just right. And you have technology to thank for it.

Technology has a lot to answer for, but it’s also brought us countless fantastic communication methods which make flirtation super-easy in the modern day!

Can you imagine a time without texting or instant messaging? You had to actually telephone someone and tell them how you feel or what you want, with your actual voice! Shock horror! Even worse, you might have had to go up to them and tell them in person.

How embarrassing!

[Read: 12 common texting habits of girls that push guys away]

What to text a guy to make him think of you

Thankfully, we’re not long stuck in the dark ages and we have messaging apps and text messaging to help us communicate with whoever we want to talk to, far easier than ever before. This has changed the dating game on its head; flirting is so easy these days, and even the shyest and quietest person and build up their confidence with a few flirty messages before a face to face meeting happens.

Of course, when you want to text a guy you have your eye on, or perhaps someone you’re seeing, and you can’t think of what to say, it can be a real pain. You’re staring at a blank screen on your phone, the cursor blinking and your brain is blank. You want to be all witty and flirty, but everything you think of sounds cringe-worthy.

[Read: What to text a guy to get his attention – 25 examples that work like a charm]

The good news is that you can learn how to be the ultimate texter, so next time you want to come up with a few texts to make him think about you, they’ll come naturally to you.

You don’t have to talk dirty, but a few suggestive comments could certainly turn his attention back to you and have him thinking about the next time he sees you! Of course, a kind and gentle, even cute comment doesn’t go amiss occasionally too. [Read: How to get a guy to start texting you first when he basically refuses to do so]

15 texts to make him think about you – guaranteed!

At the end of the day, you know the guy you’re texting and you know what he is going to respond to, but if you’re struggling for inspiration, here are 15 texts to make him think about you, which you might like to try out the next time your mind goes blank.

#1 Will I see you tonight? I have a surprise

#2 I was just thinking about you…

#3 I can’t stop thinking about this guy. I think you might know him…

#4 Netflix and chill – plan?

#5 Last night was so amazing

#6 I’m in bed and it feels very empty without you here

#7 You give me super-butterflies!

#8 If you want to drive by mine tonight I promise I’ll make it worth it

#9 I’ve thought about you all day long

#10 I really miss you, I can’t wait to see you again

#11 I had a dream about you last night

#12 My friends tell me they wish their guy was like you

#13 I just saw something hot and I thought about you

#14 I’ve just realized how lucky I am

#15 My friends keep asking me why I’ve got a constant smile on my face. Any ideas?

[Read: 18 texting secrets to go from timid to super sexy texting temptress]

Now, I’m quite aware that reading these texting examples on a screen like this, listed there like cold suggestions, makes you want to hide your head under a pillow and cringe like your life depends on it. I get it, believe me, it felt that way when I was typing them. However, in real life, they work very well, and it all comes down to the conversation they start.

Every single one of those texts to make him think about you are subtle and suggestive, but they stay on the right side of the fence. They’re not particularly dirty, although a few of them suggest that something dirty has happened, or is about to happen! I don’t want to generalize here, but from my experience, the odd dirty remark is something most guys want to hear occasionally – although the key word there is ‘occasionally’!

[Read: 13 texting tweaks that’ll make any guy want you texting him more often]

It’s also nice to receive a cute message sometimes, but again, don’t overdo it. You’re not a puppy, and if you’ve not been seeing this guy for too long, he might think that an abundance of cute messages is the equivalent of things moving a bit too fast in the relationship stakes.

It all comes down to moderation and mixing things up a bit. Go suggestive one time and then go cute another, mix it up and see what the reaction is. Every guy reacts differently to certain subjects, and you’ll come to find out what works and what isn’t worth trying again. [Read: How to text a guy without seeming desperate and overly needy]

Most of those texts to make him think about you are also conversation starters. For instance “I had a dream about you last night” is almost certainly going to lead to him asking what it was about. You can then come up with something to tell him, but you’ll have to use your imagination, unless you really did have a dream about him!

The last text, “my friends keep asking me why I’ve got a constant smile only face” is likely to lead to another conversation. If he’s a little shy or maybe lacking in confidence he might need you to tell him why, i.e. because of him, but most guys will crack a joke and you’ll be bantering back and forth before you know it, smiling like crazy.

The art of timing your texts right

Random texts work for one reason – the element of surprise. If you send random texts every single day, or more than once per day, they’re not going to make him smile anymore. We appreciate what we don’t get a lot of, so bombarding him with witty texts is just going to turn into a daily ritual that he doesn’t really pay much attention to after the first few days. You’d do the same. [Read: Why did he stop texting me? 13 rules you need to follow when texting a guy]

This means you need to understand the art of timing. These texts should be sent randomly but when he’s least expecting it. It’s not the best idea to send a random text late at night, unless you’re expecting a booty call to come out of it. Instead, opt for mid-afternoon; most people are busy in the mid-afternoon, so the fact that you’re thinking about him when you’re pretty busy working or studying is going to be quite sweet to him.

If your guy is away for some reason, perhaps away with family or away on work, these random texts will keep the communication flowing until you’re reunited again, but remember to keep them flowing sparingly and not like an endless torrent or an out of control river. [Read: How to know when to stop texting a guy – Are you texting him too much?]

It’s also worth pointing out that these cute and suggestive text conversations should not only be coming from you; it needs to be a two sided deal! If you’re finding that you’re constantly needing to come up with text ideas to get this guy to talk to you for any length of time via text, you need to be asking yourself why. Is he simply not that imaginative, or simply quite lazy?

Either way, only spend your time with these texts to make him think about you if he actually deserves your effort. If he does, go for it!

[Read: Must-know secrets to master while texting a guy you like]

If you want to give this guy a nudge in the middle of the day, and make him think of you and smile,  these are the ideal texts to make him think about you. Send them sparingly and use the art of surprise to make the best impact possible.