29 Best Sex Positions & Tips for Small Penis Owners to Go Deep & Hit the Spot

Are you wondering about the best sex positions for a small penis? Look no further! We’ve got the low-down on how to hit the high notes right here. 

The media makes a big stink about size: bigger boobs, bigger spending, upsize that combo. And your penis is definitely included in that “big” conversation. With all the talk about “size matters,” you may start to feel embarrassed about your sexual prowess – but don’t be! There are plenty of sex positions for a small penis to make your sex life out of this world!

First of all, most women would rather have someone of the smaller size than risk ripping their uterus for an 11″ rocket, so if you’re worried your partner is looking for Gigantor, put those fears to rest.

If you’re below average in the penis department, don’t freak out. It’s all about knowing how to use what you’ve got. [Read: Does size really matter that much to women?]

What is considered a small penis?

Look, every guy is different. You really shouldn’t go comparing yourself to anyone else. But let’s look at the average penis size and then we know anything below that could be considered as being on the smaller side.

Now, remember that we don’t know the exact average because nobody is going to go around measuring every single guy on the planet. But the average is thought to be around 5.1-5.5 inches when erect and about 3.5 inches when flaccid.

So, if you’re below that, you have a smaller-than-average penis. But all is not lost, you just need to learn a few tips and some great sex positions for a small penis. Then, you’re good to go! [Read: Why are men so obsessed with their penis size?]

How to have good sex with a small penis

Women aren’t fixated on size, popular culture made it look like they are, but it’s not true. So, if you’re looking to up your sex game, it’s good that you came here. Because whether you have a small or larger penis, there’s always room for improvement.

1. Get over your penis size

First, you’re going to need to get over the size of your penis. Because you’re worried about it, you’re preventing yourself from relaxing during sex and this is a huge problem if you want to improve your sexual experience.

So first things first, you need to accept the size of your penis. Just do it, it’s time. [Read: How much does size really matter when it comes to penises?]

2. Penetration isn’t the main event

So many men think that penetration is the highlight of sex, but it’s not.

First of all, most of the nerve endings are in the vaginal canal which is the outer third of the vagina – most penises can reach this part.

However, aside from that, women love oral sex and manual stimulation, so vaginal penetration isn’t the main highlight. [Read: How to give her oral sex like a pro]

3. Don’t compare

Never compare the size of your penis with anyone else’s. Trust us, nobody is bothered. Everyone is too concerned about the size of their own or, if they’re your partner, what you can do with it.

Comparisons do nothing but drag your self-confidence down to the floor.

4. Don’t mention the size of your penis

If you want to have good sex, refrain from talking about the size of your penis. What do you expect a woman to say when you talk about the size of your penis? It’s awkward and shows her that you have self-esteem issues.

From that moment on, the sex will never get to the level it could have gone. Leave penis size conversations outside of the bedroom. Period. [Read: The average penis – easy answers that’ll make you a know-it-all]

5. Test out sex positions for a small penis

If you have a small penis, not every position is going to work out for you. This works the same way with larger penises. You need to find a position that works.

Focus on positions where you can hold her legs closer together, creating a tighter fit. Stay away from standing positions because there’s more space between you two. [Read: Why a bigger penis can actually be a bad experience for women]

6. Don’t go crazy on the lube

Usually, we tell everyone to pack on the lube when they’re having sex. However, for smaller penises, you shouldn’t use too much lube. If it’s too wet inside the vagina, it’ll feel like your penis is too slippery.

You need some traction to stimulate the vagina. If you accidentally put on too much lube, a hand job can help you reduce the amount of lube and it feels amazing so it’s a win-win.

7. Maybe give anal a try

If you have a smaller penis, then why not try anal sex? See, women are much more hesitant to have anal sex with a man with a larger penis and you can understand why.

A smaller penis can create a much more pleasurable experience during anal sex, so this is also something you might like to try. [Read: How to prepare for anal sex – a beginners’ fantasy guidebook]

8. Focus on the clit

When it comes to understanding how to have good sex with a small penis, the clit is your golden ticket to pleasing her and making her go crazy.

Just because you have a small penis doesn’t mean you can’t stimulate her clitoris. Use your fingers, mouth, or penis when it comes to stimulating her clit.

In general, you should have a strong understanding and technique when stimulating the clitoris. That way, you don’t need to focus so much on penetration. [Read: Hot and easy ways for men to get way better in bed!]

9. Go heavy on foreplay

No matter what size of penis you have, most men go through foreplay way too fast and jump right into penetration. But the vagina is like a car, you should take some time to warm up the engine before you start driving.

So, spend more time in foreplay, it’ll make the entire sexual experience more enjoyable and builds up the sexual tension. Plus, bringing her to orgasm before penetration will reduce the pressure you have on yourself.

10. Keep her legs up

If you’re going into the missionary position, then you should take her legs and raise them.

Place them on your shoulders or hold them in your hands as this will allow for deeper penetration and sensation. Plus, you’ll be able to have vaginal access without any interference with other body parts. 

11. Use sex toys

Sex toys exist for a reason. Regardless of the size of your penis, you can use sex toys to increase sexual stimulation and feeling.

Sometimes it’s hard to find the best angles, but with a sex toy, it may help you hit the spot you were trying to find. Plus, you can also give her a deeper penetration. [Read: The sex toys you need to try with your lover]

12. Communicate

Throughout sex, you should always keep an open line of communication. How will you know if they like the position or move if you’re not communicating with them?

Remember, sex takes two people, so, make sure you’re both happy and satisfied. [Read: How to talk about sex without sounding like a pervert]

The best sex positions for a small penis

For those on the smaller side, great sex is all about finding the right positions that are tight and secure. Fun and challenging as they seem, you’re not going to want to be in crazy positions where your penis is prone to slipping out or ones that don’t make her vagina full.

1. Doggy style

Aside from the oddly socially acceptable name, doggy style is one of the definite fun and naughty sex positions that just makes you feel like a dirty boy getting it on with your equally naughty partner.

It’s also one of those magical positions that will make your penis feel bigger than it actually is. That’s because doggy style allows for fantastically deep penetration and gives you complete control.

Use the classic face-down doggy position, or have your partner lay flat on her stomach and enter her from behind. A definite win-win! [Read: Ways to make the doggy style your new favorite sex position]

2. Reverse cowgirl

Get your girl on top in this reverse cowgirl position. This position is basically the girl on top with her facing in the opposite direction.

By having her grind you instead of bouncing up and down, she’ll be able to get some fantastic clitoral stimulation while never having to risk coming too far up and squashing your most prized possession!

For a great variation of reverse cowgirl, enter your girlfriend in the reverse cowgirl position, but then have her extend her arms to your calves, and her legs to your shoulders. This will allow for deeper penetration. And you’ll get a great view of her behind! [Read: 18 ways girl on top can be so much hotter]

3. Spooning, legs up

So it’s not the most exciting-sounding position, but it is very romantic and great for men who edge toward the small side.

Start in the spooning position, and then move both of her legs up, almost like the fetal position. This will narrow the vaginal canal and help prevent slippage.

4. Doggy mountain

Similar to doggy style, prop your partner’s torso and arms face down on a sturdy stack of pillows, and enter her from behind.

Try to lean forward, touching your front to her back. The pillows act as a great prop to keep the two of you stable, allowing your hands to wander to her clit and breasts.

To get even tighter penetration, have your partner squeeze her thighs together while you thrust! [Read: How to dirty talk – 36 sexy tips and 55 examples to turn anyone on with words]

5. Cowgirl slide

Have your girl get on top and penetrate her. Once you’re securely in, have her lean forward so her breasts are against your chest, and extend her legs downward so she’s completely sprawled out on top of you.

This allows for tighter penetration and great clit stimulation if she rocks up and down as you penetrate her.

6. The butterfly

This position is flirtatious, adventurous, and feels oh-so-good for both partners. With you standing, your girlfriend should lay on her back on a table or mattress that’s lower than your groin. Grab her butt and tilt her until she’s high enough for you to penetrate her.

This tilted angle allows for great G-spot penetration, and if she squeezes her thighs, you’ll actually get a tighter thrust, and she’ll feel way more filled up.

7. Legs on shoulders

Enter her in missionary position and put her legs up on your shoulders. This allows you to take total control and thrust deeper. Many women love this position as well, as you are free to play with her clit or grind your pelvis against it, all while stimulating her G-spot.

Plus, if you’re into feet, this a fun and sexy position for a little toe sucking!

8. Splitting bamboo

Remember, the closer you can get your pelvises, the better! Conquering small penis positions means allowing for the deepest penetration possible.

For this position, have your girlfriend lie on her back with one leg flat on the bed and the other bent upward. Straddle her thigh and penetrate her, lifting her other leg up over your shoulder. This will allow for extra pressure sensations and deep thrusting. [Read: 30 day sex challenge – 30 hot positions for 30 days!]

9. X marks the spot

This is a great sex position for a small penis because it helps to get a tight fit by raising her legs. In this position, your girlfriend should lie on her back and cross both ankles with her feet resting on your chest. You then penetrate her and use small rocking motions to drive you both crazy!

10. Pile driver

This one is slightly more acrobatic but it guarantees fantastic results for all involved!

In this position, the woman lies on her back and swings each leg back over her head, as far as feels comfortable.

Her legs should be facing toward the floor and then you will squat over and penetrate her. [Read: Average time for sex – how long we want vs. how long we last]

11. The x-rated

Picture the 69 position in your mind. Well, this is a lot like that but instead of your penis being in her mouth, it’s in her vagina instead.

12. The slide

This position is perfect for creating a slip-and-slide effect which will stimulate her clitoris and vagina. Lay down on your back and then your partner lays on top of you, on her stomach. Your face to face and your legs are tightly closed around hers.

Penetrate her and then she slides up and down your body, creating a delicious friction. [Read: Deep penetration – naughty ways it can push you over the edge]

The best positions for anal sex

If you’re looking for the best anal sex positions to accommodate your small member, we’ve got you covered too!

1. Anal doggy style

We’ve already mentioned that doggy style is great for those with small penises, but if you’re going to try anal, this is another good option to go to.

This position is the same as the doggy style we previously mentioned, but of course, you’ll be engaging in butt play.

2. Plank

The plank looks a lot like the missionary position but instead of your partner being on their back, they’re on their stomach. [Read: How to have anal sex and 51 bum must-knows to prepare for your first time]

3. Missionary anal

This shouldn’t need an explanation! It’s exactly the same as missionary except you’re not aiming for the vagina this time! This is the best position for first-timers or for a more slow and intimate anal sex experience.

4. The see-saw

For this position, you sit on the bed with your legs extended and your hands behind you for support. Then, your partner will sit on your lap facing you, and their hands will be behind them so they’re resting on your legs. Then, do your thing!

5. Anal pile driver

We’ve already talked about the pile driver, but you can do this for anal sex too. You know the drill *pun intended*, heels over the head. [Read: What does anal sex feel like both physically and mentally?]

Confidence is the most important thing to remember

Alright, so you’re not exactly the “tallest man” – who cares? If you appear confident about your skills, even if you’re just faking it, odds are, your girlfriend isn’t going to think twice about how big or small your penis is.

At the end of the day, your attitude will have everything to do with how your sexual performance is portrayed to your partner.

[Read: 18 sexy ways to be incredibly good in bed and leave anyone wanting more]

Make the saying, “It’s not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean,” true by educating yourself on sex positions for a small penis.